混淆

已经搞不清楚
热心帮人，处处为人
到底真的是纯粹为了那个人好，希望他幸福快乐
还是希望他认为你是个好人，然后投桃报李
你大可澄清说，‘我是绝对不求回报的’
可这句话的真实成分有多少？


心里早已有个点，深深地明白
你对我好，然后我对你好，又或者是相反，是一个自然现象
一个人对另一个人好，产生出的情感，是不可磨灭的
饮水思源，感恩图报，是人的本能，是每个人认为的理所当然
就好比生物学里的互利共生，小丑鱼得到海藻的保护，自然而然知恩图报帮海藻进行清理工作。
你嘴说不求回报，可是你却明明期待着回报。
回报不一定是行动，不一定是说话
最起码，你希望帮了他之后，他心里认为你是个好人，他认为你很好，他很喜欢你这位朋友
没有期待？好吧，举个例。
你为了你的朋友找到了一份工作，这份工作大大改善了他的生活，他活得更好了。
但原来他只是利用你来找工作罢了，之后就过桥抽板，从来都没有把你当朋友。
伤心？难过？
为什么呢？你帮他不都是为了他吗？你不是不求回报吗？
他现在活得更好了呀，你应该开心不是吗？


说穿，其实每个人在帮助另一个人的当儿，都在期待着某种回报
最基本的，是期待着不会有反面的回报。
听起来非常的残酷，我也很想选择不相信。
但好像很难，已经分不清什么才是真正地为别人好了。


无私的人，还有吗？


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