日久见人心

人，真的是最复杂的动物


有些人，表面看上去

是好好先生，好好小姐

但实际上，却可以做出你根本无法相信的事~


又有些人，表面看上去很不友善

其实那只是他们的性格和习惯

他们也可以是个健谈和友善的人


孔子说得对，人不可貌相，海水不可斗量


这个社会有太多的伪装

我们能做的，就只有将心比心，用真心去感受这个世界~

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